A Cry for Help

Last night there was a terribly tragic event in our neighborhood. Just across the street and 7 doors down, a man hung himself. It was horrible hearing his wife screaming as the police tried to get her out of the house. There were 3 children in the home and it appears it was one of the kids who made the discovery. It made me take stock in what I have and what is most important in my own life. I would like to remind everyone of a few important facts. Hopefully it will make a difference.Myth: Non-fatal attempts are only attention-getting behaviors.

Fact: For some people suicidal behaviors are serious invitations to others to help them live. Rather than punishing or reprimanding someone who has expressed suicidal thoughts offer help and alternative answers. Get them to talk to a minister or counselor. Suicidal behaviors must be taken seriously. If not addressed a thought of suicide can become an act of suicide.

Myth: Only a professional can help a suicidal person.

Fact: While long term care should be handled by a professional, immediate recognition of a suicidal person or someone in need of help is up to you. By paying attention to what the person is saying, taking it seriously, offering support, and getting help you can prevent a potential tragedy. Many are lost to suicide because immediate support wasn’t offered.

Myth: Just because they talk about suicide does not mean they will actually go through with it.

Fact: Almost everyone who commits suicide has given some clue or warning. Do not ignore suicide threats. Statements like “You’ll be sorry when I’m dead,” or “I can’t see any way out”-no matter how casually or jokingly said-may indicate serious suicidal feelings.